Because there are social structures and gender bias, boys and girls are taught various things about sex.
This teaching is often reflected when they grow into men and women.
As for men, having sex for the first time no less than a great achievement, it’s all about “losing” virginity in a woman’s case.
The opposite construct like that is the result of how we consider sex as a society, and what we teach for boys and girls about it.
This often leads to men feel special when it comes to things like sex and women feel embarrassed and confident in expressing their likes and desires.
Thus, it is important to put the right foundation when having sex.
Here are some lies we need to stop teaching boys about sex.
1.
Sex is about penetrating the general concept of virginity and sex too narrow and limiting.
It’s all about penis-in-vaginal penetration.
However, this does not include oral and anal sex.
Next, it also does not include the sexual experience of the LGBTQ.
Boys need to be taught that sex means more for different people than just penetration.
2.
Boys cannot be Rapedrape is a very unrifted crime regardless of gender.
In addition, rape and sexual violence against men and boys is even more unreported.
This is because of the misunderstanding that “men always want sex.” As per experts, male victims were forced to believe that there must be something “not true” with them if they did not enjoy the attack.
3.
Porn is a great way to learn about important sex to teach boys that the sex depicted in porn is not how it should be.
They must be aware of the fact that porn is performance and not instruction manual.
Watch a lot of it won’t make them good at sex!
4.
Sex ends when a man is complete is one of the main reasons for sexual frustrated relationships.
Men often believe that sex ends when they reach orgasm, regardless of whether their partner is satisfied or not.
It’s very selfish and not understanding them, and they need to be educated about boys.
5.
Sex must take place for hours above inspiration from porn often produce boys thinking that sex must take hours.
However, this is not true at all.
If sex as long as it is depicted in porn, it will be a rather painful and uncomfortable experience.