Nagpur: In the ongoing wedding season, the engagement ceremony in the swank place on the outskirts on December 29 stood around Zillion miles apart because there were only two brides, and there was no groom.
The two women, on their ‘commitment ring ceremony’, vowed to become partners on their journey of life.
The ceremony between two Bengali women has all the glamor and luxury according to such opportunities, including choreography, songs, designer dresses and parties.
About 150 guests also took into a new relationship, just like the hearts of the two women who were officially engaged, although the debate went berserk about criminal liabilities and legal recognition of the lesbian relationship.
Their love story is no less thrilling than thriller films, both of which liked, regardless of music, songs, and singing.
“It’s a vibration that suits us,” they said.
“We will apply for legal recognition too quickly,” said one Wannabe bride, which aims to get married at 2022-end or early 2023.
They both will settle into their careers, and achieve financial stability.
They now dream of a wedding destination in Goa or Mumbai.
One of them is a 29-year high-educated mouse (name changed), which heads the department at a famous city institution.
He exchanged rings with his girlfriend, Paro (name changed), who belonged to West Bengal and is currently posted in Delhi.
“We are two wives and do not need a husband.
Our dream is to have a house, adopt a baby, and be a mother,” said Paro, who came to Nagpur during Diwali to meet Meeta.
After meeting at a conference through a friend with about a year ago, it was the first love view, then two souls disbursed each other over a certain period of time when their bonds were getting stronger.
“I met him first at his father’s place.
He introduced me to his family and our reciprocal relationship began to bloom,” said Paro.
“Our family already knows our orientation,” he said.
Both women who identified as lesbians said they had grown emotionally through life experiences.
Both suffered separation, regardless of their struggle for reception with their own families and the whole community.
Meeta, based in the city, said his family took the time to accept it.
“Initially, they thought it was a phase and would soon pass.
They also began to ask me to consider proposals from men but I refused,” he said.
“Then, my family began researching about sexual orientation and learning that it was equally natural like heterosexuality,” said the educated woman, adding that around 500 species globally practiced homosexuality without facing discrimination, unlike humans.
“My father was present at our commitment ceremony.
He has received me, my relationship, and also my partner, but still wants to stay under a wrap for a longer time,” said the woman.
Paro, who works for multinational companies, said he had opened it about his sexuality when in standard XI.
“I have revealed to the public about my sexuality in 2017 because there is nothing embarrassing.
This is your life and no one has to interfere,” he said.
Meeta has wise words for the whole community.
“The life of the homosexual community is not easy.
Someone must be highly educated and financially stable with a good career path to success in such relationships, which is full of challenges,” he said.
Human Rights Activist Anand Chandrani, Founder of President Sarathi Trust, said he was encouraging to see a lesbian pair that appeared with a brave decision.