The story: My husband is a handsome man with a large social circle.
He talks with all kinds of people and maintains good relations with all the extraordinary people.
But the most disturbing me is the number of women who threw themselves towards him.
He acted firmly with them if I trust him.
Even at home when we have a party, he maintains a distance.
Not only in front of me, even my friends had noticed this and made me updated about how he handled such an awkward situation.
I got it that he had to be friendly with everyone because of his work and today we really didn’t know who would be useful when but still bothered me.
His cellphone does have a password that is very predictable for me and I have checked the phone with science.
I don’t feel something wrong in it.
The story: I have an active social life that involves talking with many women.
I am a married man and I know where to stop but I can also see my wife threatened to be threatened.
I was always very honest with him but I felt he checked my cellphone in my absence.
I feel spying and I don’t know what to do because I feel my privacy has been compromised.
I didn’t have anything to hide, I said everything, I tried to make it feel safe so why check my cellphone?
Relationship experts, Shahzeen Shivdasani: Yes, technically checking your partner’s phone without their permission is a violation of privacy.
However, in a relationship, if trust has been damaged and your important person tries to make you trust them again, then with their permission for a short time, it’s okay to check their phone.
In this way trust and safety can be rebuilt.
However, this should not be a habit.
In the relationship at which trust has never been damaged, if one partner decides to secretly check the phone another pair then this can be an indication of past trauma with trust, or that the current partnership never has it in the first place.
What did you take on the same thing? Do you check your partner’s phone? Tell us what you feel in the comments section.
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