In this love month when Valentine’s Day and Valentine’s Day are one of the most awaited festivals for lovers, how can we not talk about the term “unconditional love” owned by Romeo and Juliet for each other? The word ‘love’ refers to a set of certain behaviors and emotions including commitment, trust, affection, care, passion, intimacy, closeness, protection and attraction.
This can also be called a divine feeling that one experience in his life.
It is often seen that the intensity we ‘like’ can change for a period of time or with the situation.
But it will not be wrong to associate the word ‘love’ with a large number of positive emotions such as euphoria, happiness, satisfaction, satisfaction et al.
However, sometimes ‘love’ might also cause certain negative emotions such as stress, anxiety, jealousy et al.
‘Unconditional love’ refers to loving someone without terms and conditions.
This is the purest form of love where we accept all the shortcomings of that person happily and love them for whom they are without expecting something in return or want them to change themselves as per our behavior and fantasies.
This type of love does not know the limits and limitations.
This is full love without hope.
Thus, ‘unconditional love’ loves someone with all his heart and free without string.
The best example of ‘unconditional love’ is the love of a mother for her child.
He loves his child without conditions, always taking care of the last need, standing beside him) thick and thin, making a lot of sacrifice for him and never expect or demand something in return.
Also, he never voiced whatever he had done for his son, he secretly did everything for his son and prayed for his well-being because he loved him without conditions!
In the world today, this type of love (‘unconditional love’) may sound unrealistic or just found in a movie or fairy tale because it is selfless action but there are some people who experience ‘unconditional love’ or ‘love someone unconditioned’.
This is the key to successful long-term relationships including parental relationships, your relationship, relationship between friends, etc.
Here is a list of certain customs that you might want to adapt to create a bond that cannot be solved with the people you love and love them without conditions-
1.
Become a good listener
You have to learn the art of listening to your loved ones when they limit something or share any experiences.
This will make them feel valued.
2.Stop judge
Don’t judge people for anything – appearance, behavior, lifestyle et al.
This makes them feel inferior and unwanted.
Encourage them and appreciate them make them feel valuable.
3.Speak your heart
Try to express your feelings to your loved ones so that they make them better understand you.
4.
Charge of quality time with your loved ones
We are all very busy in our daily lives.
But we have to make it a point to spend quality time with our loved ones over a cup of coffee or dinner etc.
5.
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Make a point to have one transparent communication with your loved ones.
Share anything you feel so you can have a long-term relationship.
The above column has been written by coach of love, Jigyasa Uniyal.
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