Query: My 12-year-old girl thinks that boys are not good, and he just makes a girlfriend.
We can be responsible for that too because my husband always tells him ‘away from boys’ ‘boys can hurt you’.
I want to change the way my daughter thinks.
What can I?
Response by Dr.
Ishita Mukerji, international famous psychologist
Thank you for writing to us! Parents play an important role in shaping child personality.
It is important that you and your husband realize that you can both be responsible for the choice of your daughter to find comfort in being around the women’s peer group.
Parents must avoid creating certain sex bias in the minds of their children because the presence of the opposite type cannot be eliminated.
Instead, what parents have to do is educate their children about a good touch with a bad touch, make their children aware of different sexes, just like people from different geographical and socio-economic backgrounds .
We must help them understand good and bad existence and how to appreciate good and avoid bad people around us.
Well, it’s never too late to make a correction in life.
Whether you and your husband can secretly start sharing a positive view of male family members and social groups.
You can start with how your husband adds value to your life.
How are your brothers (if any) or your father or uncle or teacher or friend of the value of the school for your life.
Likewise, your husband can also talk about the responsibilities carried out by good men or virtues that define a man.
In this way, you will find that if your daughter has developed a bias or an insecure sense of her mistakes, slowly will get runny, and he will find comfort and confidence to roam with them.
However, please don’t push it too hard to change and allow it to gain his trust naturally.
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